2023年11月5日 星期日

Single Mom by Choice

 "Why doesn't Evelyn have a dad? Everyone has a dad," my 5-year-old daughter's friend blurted out innocently as she looked around our home, taking stock of the toy collection in the corner. It was her first time over for a play date, and I wasn't expecting this question to pop up within the first 10 minutes of her arrival.

Before I had time to consider my response, my daughter answered, "My mommy is my only parent because she really wanted me!" Her friend shrugged her shoulders, accepting this answer, and the girls bounced off to play.

2023年9月30日 星期六

都已成年不拖不欠

 成年人有过交集以后,要做到不拖不欠实在太难了,唯有少一点跟别人结缘,两袖清风潇潇洒洒。



2023年6月15日 星期四

All too well.

思來想去,值得記錄嗎?

好像不過是重來一遍而已,但人生大概就是這樣吧,相遇相知相愛,然後就沒有了。

2023年5月5日 星期五

我很喜歡我自己

人是注定寂寞的,來的時候是本質就是離開母體的過程,到離開這世上,你還是終究一人。

我們允許自己的情緒,接受他,接受情緒是殺死不了你的,你可以讓它慢慢離開你,然後看又是一條好漢了。

2023年4月26日 星期三

2023年1月12日 星期四

I'm happy now and that's all that matters

The hassle to settle an agreement of my flat has brought me back so many unpleasant memories. Although gone is the past, I slowly understand why I was so unhappy.

It wasn't me being depressed or crazy. It was simply because you were with an extremely toxic person. 

It is impossible to be kind when you are often mistreated. It feels hopeless because the person who is supposed to look after you and support you, not only he didn't. He decided to push you away and even spat on you. How could you be possibly intact?

Anyway we should all move on and remember that you are happy now.