2014年3月9日 星期日

"There are no rules. We can make them up to suit our needs.  I am not set on specific allowance, but there has to be a connection.  A monthly allowance is a valuation of my self-worth for offering the best of me towards my Sugar Daddy. I do so without jealousy, selfishness, drama, or the demand of his time.  It is also compensation of my valuable time that I’m investing for someone, while knowing from the start that there will never be a serious future.
I am open to anything that is fun, exciting, pleasure filled, and drama free.  However, I cannot be bought.  If there is NO chemistry this will NOT work for either of us!  I am a very physical person and am looking for that to be part of the relationship, but also like a man that can dazzle me with intellect and experience.  I am looking for a partner in crime who loves creating ADVENTURES! "
If this defines what is an ideal arrangement between a SB and a SD, I suppose I am part of it now.
Considering all major factors, having an arrangement seems to work as the best way for me. I know I am too busy to have a traditional date or relationship right now. And honestly, I do not want more pressure coming from another person. It is good to feel loved, pampered, and at the same time, you are having control in your life without having to put another person into account. This do not mean me and Mister are not caring for each other. Maybe the caring just does not involve in everyday-life details, but you know there is an intelligent man right behind you if a crisis comes to you.
Next year can be a challenge though. I will have more time, being part of a bigger community. I guess it might be quite tempting to enter something normal for the first time. But will I?