2017年4月11日 星期二

Fulfilling Needs and Bargain Power

Me:
Increased commitment
Increased anxiety - I have reasons to believe the anxiety is induced by Doctor's reaction.

If meeting 3 times a week, of which I only stayed over twice is "too much, too close" for him, honestly there is nothing much I can do. The fact that he tries to make me believe that I am demanding him too much is unbearable.

From this relationship, being able to spend time  is like the bottom-line for me. The amount of time is objective to individuals, but I honestly don't think we are spending more time with each other than before. He is just being a dick. Being uncomfortable is not an excuse to be irresponsive.

At this point, I realise this relationship is no longer accessible - my need. If this bottom-line cannot be fulfilled, and for that is the only thing I can get out of the relationship, this is no point to proceed. Besides, what other bargaining power does he have to negotiate on that? What on earth has he done to compensate, what have he really done/compromise to show love? 

At least, Mister went for the material path as he knew he can't be accessible or really making time for me if he can.

或者由始至終呢段感情都充滿苦澀味。




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